Get better results with these tips from three financial advisors about the right way to ask questions.
If you want a positive result from a client, ask the question in a positive way. For example:
Don’t use: What don’t you like about your current insurance program?
Use: What do you like best about your current policy (or agent)?
Keep language straightforward when talking to clients — avoid acronyms and other jargon.
Don’t use: Why don’t you protect your executives with CYC and POS policies?
Use: How do you currently protect your management and board of directors against “X” risk?
Prakash K. Ved, 29-year MDRT member
Get to know your clients with these two questions
1) What do you want your money to do for you when you are alive?
2) What do you want your money to do for you when you die?
Wu-Chen Huang, past MDRT member
Close meetings with these three questions
1) What three things should we focus on during the next 30 days?
2) Is there anything else that is important for me to know about your situation at this time?
3) If I am going to be your trusted advisor, what do you expect from me and my team?
Jay M. De Finis, 25-year MDRT member
For more ideas on client questions
- Read “Important questions to ask prospects and clients to understand their financial goals” (MDRT member-exclusive content)
- Read “Questions to convert suspects to prospects to clients” (MDRT member-exclusive content)
- Watch “Motivating questions for selling key person and life insurance“





Another great phrasing of a question, where you are asking permission or requesting an action, is to say: “Would you have any objection to… having me follow up… sharing some facts about your finances… suggesting some people who might need my services… ” etc. Most people’s default answer to a question is “no”. So if you phrase your “positive request” to be “no,” then you’ve achieved the outcome you want… “No, you can follow up with me… No, I’ll be happy to discuss my finances… No, I’d be happy to introduce you to XYZ… etc.
Very good questions to put it in right way to clients.
Excellent ideas, that changes the interview with a client and the way they see you.
Thanks